Did you know that it is inevitable to face adversity in life? Not only will you face it in your personal life but also in your business life. When most people face adversity they become Victims instead of Victors. When you become so overwhelm with adversity you create anxiety and start to live in that state. That is called reacting to adversity instead of responding to it. To respond to adversity is to let go, to live in the NOW or moment, to be able to accept the circumstances and find a solution. Reacting to it is when you LOSE! Reacting to it you get defeated by defeat. Reacting to it you go into fight or flight mode. Reacting to it makes your body create a biochemical dependency to it and you now begin to attract it.
When this happens you now attract conflict that creates adversity. Everything you do begins to be not good enough to you, this creates conflict with family members, friends, co workers, business partners, etc. We can begin to create a conflict consciousness. Why? Because we are now attracting whats familiar. You begin to create MANY situations that your consciousness becomes familiar with instead of MINI situations. Worst, this creates negative thoughts where you begin to say to yourself things like, this always happens to me, I'll never be successful, i can't do that. This my friends is how you attract conflict, how you attract adversity. There is a quote from a Good book that says "As a man thinketh, so he is."
What separates the average from the exceptional? The exceptional let go of control, they stay out of anger, hate, shame, resentment and overwhelm feelings. The exceptional do not have a conflict consciousness. The exceptional BE in a state where they stay relaxed, they don't take situations personal, they don't always over react. The exceptional attract what they are looking for into their lives or business. The exceptional are In The Flow, they live in prosperity. PLEASE keep in mind, we are all human, we all from time to time become average and experience overwhelm feelings or go into flight or fight mode. Once again, the key is to have MINI moments not MANY moments.
My friends, are you ready to become a Victor instead of a Victim? Are you ready to start living in the flow, facing adversity head on and saying to yourself this to shall pass? If you are ready you have to create a system for change. Focus on the solution not the problem. Taking action takes your mind off the problem which in return creates solutions, which also creates results. When you face adversity don't make it bigger than what is. I once heard someone say "If you're in a whole, stop digging!" TODAY stop being defeated by defeat, take adversity head on and move forward! You CANNOT face adversity in anxiety, watch your self talk so it's positive, face adversity in prosperity so you are in the FLOW! TODAY my friends, we turn obstacles into opportunity, we become Victors!
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